Conflict inside does not mean something is wrong with you.
You may want closeness and pull away from it. One part of you may demand change while another insists that staying exactly as you are is safer. IFS offers language for approaching these reactions as parts with roles, histories, and protective intentions.
Instead of arguing with a reaction or trying to remove it, the work asks what it is protecting, what it expects would happen if it stopped, and what it may need now.
